Men, you can never win in a divorce. Your ex-wife will say the most soul crushing things to you with a smile on her face. She will cry to your children that you are being mean to her. They, in turn, will hate you for it. Furthermore, if you call her on her shit the cycle will continue, and you again will be the bad guy. All the while, she is dodging responsibility and denying she said anything at all. Ex-wives are award winning actresses when it comes to the children. You will be hated for anything you say and for everything she says as well.