Men not dating.

In response I say….It’s called risk vs benefit. The risks & costs are FAR too high for the benefits. The juice isn’t worth the squeeze. Women made the prospect of marriage too expensive. And they won’t change.

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Things I wish I knew as a young man and didn’t have to learn the hard way.

Proposals.

Nowhere is it written that a man has to drop to one knee to propose. Let’s break it down. Getting down on one knee is similar to giving a PowerPoint presentation. You’re showing how you’re “worthy” enough for her. Think about it: you’re out there, lowering yourself, literally begging, to take on all the responsibilities of marriage. Imagine this: You’re a grown man, kneeling in public, asking her to step into your life and take a slice of your energy, your time, and your commitment. She should be excited to share a future together, not needing you to look like you’re auditioning for a part in her life. So let’s skip the public proposals and raise the standard instead of lowering yourself.

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